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"Finding my passion" the latest mantra and overused cliche used by everyone from Gen Y'' to justify inability to make decisions on anything by saying that we are assessing our options to 40 or 50 year olds Gen Xers that venture out of their established life path to pursue their interest.
Are we living in an escapism world
where overused cliché’s like live your life to the fullest and finding your
passion become the compass of our life?
When we hear stories of the high flying executive in the corporate world dropping everything to pursue his or her passion and succeeds remarkably , don'''t you wonder "Should I do the same" but then again everyone have different values (Success, Security, Freedom, Adventure) that are top on their priority list. Not everyone has the same values on top of their list, hence not everyone will make a gamble to go on the path less travelled by.
And whilst there are great success stories of people gambling their established paths to pursue their passion, there are often stories of people that defer their passion for 20-30 years before they finally pursue it . Both of them are happy, so does finding your passion for the rest of life argument work? Whilst finding your passion is a great philosophy to live by , why should finding your passion be the gold at the end of the rainbow in life before we can feel contented and happy about life?
Shouldn't life be about striving every single day to be better instead the premise of finding our passion to be the destination of our life ?
What happens to the people that may not like their jobs but work hard by the sweat of their brow to bring back home a paycheque at the end of the week to support themselves and their families ? Sometimes at the expense of deferring their passion so that they can take care of their obligations to their family . What difference does that make them compared to the person that gambles it all for their passion ? Without them, who would assemble our cars,collect our garbage, keep our streets clean?
Whilst understandably we are working longer
hours at work , it probably makes sense for some of us to be combining passion with work since we end up spending roughly 1, 920 hours and more at work every single year . And when we are interested in something and pour hours into it, we naturally excel and the cycle of fulfillment continues.
I argue that maybe the underlying idea of finding
your passion is really about finding a way to be happy no matter what goes on in the world.Whilst living in a world of celebrities making chunk loads of money from reality shows and weddings , global warming that has messed up the weather everywhere to the impending financial doom in europe.Finding your passion is maybe the code word for finding what makes you happy and finding what makes you happy is like having a little space in the world that is yours and yours alone.